Having arguments with friends once in a while is absolutely normal. I mean nobody is perfect right? But sometimes mending the fight is the hardest part of all. It’s sometimes difficult for a person to apologise to another, even if they know they’ve done something wrong. However, no need to fret over it because here are some simple steps to follow when you have had a dispute with a friend.
1) Obviously you and your friend are fighting for a reason. Figure out what it is that you are both upset about and plan ahead on what you will say. Sometimes you may still not want to talk to your friend, but is the disagreement really worth your friendship? It may be hard to admit that you’re wrong but not talking to your friend will only lead you to more misery.
2) Remember to always apologise and explain your side of the story. You may want to hear their side as well - it can sometimes totally change your opinion of things. While you are evening things out, make sure you are in a quiet environment where you and your friend can have a one-on-one conversation.
3) Probably the most important thing to remember is to always tell the truth. There is practically no point in apologising if you don’t mean it. If you are stuck on words why not buy a “sorry” card and explain that you still want to be friends?
Those are the main steps to guiding your friendship in the right direction. In the meantime, why not think of some things that will add your own touch and be extra special for them? For instance, you could bake cookies with icing that spell out “I’m Sorry”. Your options are limitless so put your thinking cap on and start brainstorming! Good luck!
